When families start looking for in-home help, they usually find two main routes. A home care agency employs caregivers and sends them to your home. A home care registry connects you with independent caregivers you hire yourself.
Both can bring good, compassionate care into your home. The real difference isn't quality. It's who is responsible for what. One model gives your family more choice and direct control. The other hands more of the day-to-day management to someone else. Neither is right for everyone.
This worksheet is designed to help you work out which one fits your family. We'll be honest about the tradeoffs, including the responsibilities that come with the registry model we offer.
The Core Difference in One Sentence
With an agency, the agency is the caregiver's employer. With a registry, your family is.
Almost every other difference flows from that. When you're the employer, you choose the person and direct the care, and you also take on employer responsibilities. When an agency is the employer, it handles more of the administration and staffing decisions, and you have less say in who comes and how things are done.
Side-by-Side: Who Handles What
Policies vary between agencies and between registries, so treat this as a general guide and ask each provider how they handle each row.
Question | Typical agency | Reflections Home Care Registry |
|---|---|---|
Who employs the caregiver? | The agency | Your family |
Who chooses the caregiver? | The agency assigns, sometimes with your input | You choose from matched candidates after interviewing them |
Who sets the schedule? | The agency, within its policies | You and your caregiver agree on it together |
Who directs day-to-day care? | The agency's care plan and supervisors | Your family |
Who screens caregivers? | The agency | The Registry screens caregivers before they join our network, and you can also check references yourself |
Who sets the pay rate? | The agency sets its billing rate and the caregiver's wage | You and your caregiver agree on the rate directly |
Who handles payroll and taxes? | The agency | You, as the employer, with optional support services available from the Registry |
What if the caregiver is sick? | The agency usually tries to send a replacement | You plan for backup; the Registry can help you look for coverage |
What if needs change? | The agency reassesses and may change staff | You adjust the arrangement with your caregiver, or look for someone with different skills |
Decision Worksheet
Read each statement and mark whether it sounds like your family. There's no score to calculate. The goal is to notice which way your answers lean.
Statements That Point Toward a Registry
- We want to meet and choose the specific person who will care for our loved one.
- Continuity matters a lot to us. We'd rather have the same caregiver over time.
- Our loved one has particular routines, preferences, or personality needs, and fit matters.
- We want to agree on the schedule and duties directly with the caregiver.
- Someone in our family is willing to be the employer and keep records, or to use payroll support to help.
- We're comfortable having a backup plan of our own for days the caregiver can't come.
Statements That Point Toward an Agency
- We'd prefer not to be an employer or handle any employment paperwork.
- We need someone else to arrange replacement caregivers on short notice.
- We want a supervisor outside the family overseeing the caregiver.
- No one in our family has the time or capacity to manage a working relationship right now.
- We're comfortable with different caregivers coming at different times.
If most of your marks fall in the first group, a registry is worth a close look. If most fall in the second, an agency may suit you better. If they're mixed, talk through the ones that matter most to you. A family might value choice above everything, or might decide that backup coverage is non-negotiable.
The Responsibilities That Come With Choice
We'd rather you go in with clear eyes. Choosing the registry model means your family takes on a role an agency would otherwise handle. That typically includes:
- Following New York's rules for domestic workers, including pay notices, overtime, and a weekly day of rest
- Handling or arranging payroll, tax withholding where required, and year-end forms
- Checking whether you need workers' compensation, disability, or paid family leave coverage
- Planning for backup care when your caregiver is sick or on vacation
- Managing the working relationship, including clear expectations and honest feedback
None of this is unusual, and many families manage it well, especially with support. Our guide to what being a household employer means walks through each item.
Questions to Ask Any Provider
Whichever route you're leaning toward, these questions help you compare honestly:
- Who is the caregiver's legal employer?
- How do you screen caregivers, and can we see what that includes?
- Will we meet and choose our caregiver, or will someone be assigned?
- How is the hourly cost broken down, and what fees are separate?
- What happens on a day the caregiver can't come?
- How do we raise a concern or request a change?
- What are our responsibilities, in writing?
Where the Registry Fits
At Reflections Home Care Registry, our role is to make direct hiring workable. We learn about your loved one's needs, screen caregivers before they join our network, introduce you to candidates who could be a good fit, and support you through interviews and hiring. You make the final choice, and you build the relationship. Our hiring and matching process explains each step, and our page on what a home care registry is goes deeper into the model.
If you're still deciding, we're happy to talk it through with no pressure. Contact Reflections Home Care Registry or call 315-497-7200, and we'll help you figure out whether the registry model is right for your family.
FAQ
What is the main difference between a home care registry and an agency? With an agency, the agency employs the caregiver and manages most of the arrangement. With a registry, your family hires the caregiver directly and becomes the employer, which gives you more choice and control along with employer responsibilities.
Is a registry caregiver an independent contractor? Not automatically. Registry caregivers are independent of the registry, but if your family directs the work and sets the hours, the caregiver is generally your household employee. A tax professional can review your arrangement.
Who provides backup care with a registry? Your family is responsible for planning backup care. The Registry can help you look for coverage, but it's wise to have a family plan for days your regular caregiver isn't available.


